Top 10 Wedding Ceremony and First Dance songs

Wedding Guitarist Blog: my top 10 most requested songs for the wedding ceremony/first dance - and some alternative choices

Choosing the music you want at your wedding is a tricky thing! Making your own song selections is the norm now, particularly at civil ceremonies but also at more traditional church weddings. While the bride may opt to enter the ceremony to the traditional Bridal Chorus performed by an organist, there is still usually space for some music before the ceremony, during the signing of the register, and as the married couple exit.

As a live guitarist and singer, I'm often booked to perform at the wedding ceremony. When I meet with couples to discuss the music, I'd say 90% of couples aren't sure what music they want - so if you're planning your wedding and scratching your head, wondering what on earth you should choose - don't despair! You're in the majority.

Jo & Mark's first dance at The Great Tythe Barn, Tetbury

  

A question that crops up time and time again when I speak to couples is "what songs have other people chosen?" This can good be a good starting point if you have no idea which songs to pick. It may be also a good guide as to which songs you don't want! Eliminating the most popular songs may be a good idea if you want something more unusual. You may stumble across a gem of a song that fits perfectly. Look out for my next blog: Top 10 most unusual wedding ceremony/first dance songs I've played. The perfect song for the ceremony or first dance will ideally be one that:

• you both like (although the bride will usually have the final word when it comes to her entrance music!)
• sets the atmosphere you're looking for (romantic? upbeat?)
• has lyrics that are meaningful to you
• reminds you of a significant moment in your relationship

If you manage to find a song that fills all the above criteria - well done! Realistically it's pretty difficult to find one that ticks all boxes, so if you find one that fulfils two out of four, you're onto a winner.

Steph & Tom's first dance at Hunstile Organic Farm

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Without further ado, here's my top 10 list of the most requested songs. I've also included an alternative option for each song in a similar style, for those looking for something a little less popular:

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#10 - Thinking Out Loud by Ed Sheeran

Only released two years ago, this song became an instant wedding favourite with it's beautiful lyrics and classic melodies. Ed's soulful voice and skilful songwriting come to the fore on this track, and I'm certain it'll be a popular choice for years to come.

Download "Thinking Out Loud" on my acoustic wedding album

See also: Tenerife Sea by Ed Sheeran

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#9 - Let's Stay Together by Al Green

Heartfelt, soulful, timeless - this song is a popular pick, with lyrics that perfectly express what the wedding day is all about. From the first line "I, I'm so in love with you" to the chorus "Loving you whether times are good or bad, happy or sad" - it's almost like all your wedding vows wrapped up in a neat musical package!

See also - At Last by Etta James

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#8 - A Thousand Years by Christina Perri

Another modern song to make the top 10 list, this has been one of my most requested at wedding ceremonies over the last couple of years. The soaring chorus melody and beautiful lyrics make this a firm favourite with the hopeless romantics!

Download "A Thousand Years" on my acoustic wedding album

See also: Love Me Like You Do by Ellie Goulding

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#7 - Here Comes The Sun by The Beatles

Uplifting and positive, this is a lovely song to have at any point during the wedding ceremony. Works perfectly for the bridal entrance, during the signing of the register or the exit of the married couple. However if you're superstitious and hoping for a sunny day, you may not want to choose this and jinx the weather!

See also: All You Need is Love by The Beatles

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#6 - Signed, Sealed, Delivered by Stevie Wonder

This is the perfect song for the wedding ceremony exit - upbeat, joyful and the perfect confirmation song that you're officially a married couple! Also works really well as a first dance song if you want something to get the party started rather than a slow dance - although be warned, you may have to bust out some dance moves in front of your wedding guests!

See also - For Once in My Life by Stevie Wonder

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#5 - Can't Help Falling in Love by Elvis Presley (aka Falling In Love With You)

A little while back I made a recording of this song in a modern acoustic style, and it seemed to instantly connect with people - quickly becoming far and away my most popular video on YouTube with well over 100,000 views to date. Heartfelt and timeless, there's just something about the melodies in this song that touch the soul. If you like my version and would like to use it at your wedding, please show your support by downloading using the link below (grabbing the mp3 via YouTube is illegal and it only costs 99p to do it the legal way!)

Download "Can't Help Falling In Love" on my acoustic album

See also: Wonderful Tonight by Eric Clapton

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#4 - I'm Yours by Jason Mraz

It seems amazing to me that this song was released in 2008 - it's nearly 10 years old! It still feels fresh as ever and remains a very popular pick at weddings. "I'm Yours" - the perfect sentiment, what more do you need to say?!

See also: I'd Rather Be With You by Joshua Radin

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#3 - Stand By Me by Ben E. King

So, we move into the top 3 with this classic soul track. Recorded in the early 60's, this song remains as popular today as ever - it's one of those tunes where everyone knows the chorus lyrics, no matter their age! A genius moment in songwriting history, and Ben E. King's incredible soulful vocals are the icing on the cake. Another great song for the recessional (exit song) at the wedding ceremony.

See also: Wonderful World by Sam Cooke

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#2 - Better Together by Jack Johnson

Jack Johnson's chilled out voice, laid-back guitar style and knack for writing interesting/unusual but universally appealing lyrics all contribute to this modern classic. "It's always better when we're together" - of course it is, that's why you're getting married! It's one of my favourite songs to play at weddings - a genius piece of songwriting, and one that will continue to be popular for years to come I'm sure.

See also - Somewhere over the Rainbow by Israel "IZ" Kamakawiwo'ole

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#1 - (Your Love Keeps Lifting Me) Higher & Higher by Jackie Wilson

And the no.1 goes to the brilliant Jackie Wilson! This song has all the elements to make it the perfect wedding song - it works brilliantly at the ceremony, or as a funky upbeat first dance song. Jackie Wilson's soaring voice and the infectious energy in the song is perfect to get everyone feeling upbeat and happy. I think it's popularity at weddings is also down to the fact that it's not necessarily as well known as some of the other songs on the list, so while it's a familiar song to hear, it doesn't feel tired or overplayed. It's one of my favourite songs to play at weddings!

Download Higher and Higher on my acoustic album

See also - My Girl by The Temptations

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 Pat McIntyre is a singer and acoustic guitarist from Bristol, UK. An experienced live performer and music aficionado, Pat is available to book for weddings and other events. For more information about booking Pat for your wedding, click here - or get in touch here.

Laura & Chris: The Manor House, Castle Combe. Wedding Guitarist & Singer - Ceremony + Drinks Reception

 

Sunday 24th May, and a relatively short journey from my home in East Bristol over to the picture-perfect village of Castle Combe. This little gem in the Cotswolds has been described as "The prettiest village in England" - and as you arrive it's hard not to pull over and take a few photos! Which, of course, I did!


An incredible place to get married, and as you enter the Manor House Castle Combe the grounds of the venue are just as stunning...

 
So a beautiful setting for Chris and Laura's big day. The happy couple booked me for the wedding ceremony + reception package. The morning brought some light rain, so I set up inside ready to play at the ceremony. After playing some background music as guests assembled, Laura made her entrance to an instrumental version of "Let Her Go" by Passenger.

Playing during the wedding ceremony

During the signing of the register I played "Won't Let You Go" by James Morrison, and an instrumental version of "The Woman I Love" by Jason Mraz. The happy couple exited the ceremony to the ever-popular "Higher & Higher" by Jackie Wilson. The weather cheered up in the afternoon - so a quick change of plan, and I did some rushing around to move my equipment out to the front of the building where the drinks reception took place.

 

Thumbs up from the bride! 

All in all, a beautiful day and I had a great time. Congratulations to Chris and Laura, who travelled down from Newcastle for the big day - hope everything was absolutely perfect for you both, and that everyone had a great evening as well! Their acoustic playlist from the day:

Sixpence None the Richer - Kiss Me
Paolo Nutini - Last request
Michael Buble - Crazy Love 
The Lumineers - Ho Hey
Jason Mraz - I'm Yours
Ben Howard - Only Love
Ed Sheeran - Thinking out Loud

Passenger - Let Her Go (instrumental)
James Morrison - Won't Let You Go
Jason Mraz - The Woman I Love (instrumental)
Jackie Wilson - Higher & Higher

Eagle eye cherry - Save Tonight 
George Ezra - Budapest 
Jack Johnson - Better together
David Gray - Babylon 
Ben Howard - Only Love
Frank Sinatra - Fly me to the moon 
Jason Mraz - I’m Yours

Passenger - Let her go 
Lumineers - Ho Hey 
Sixpence None The Richer - Kiss Me 
Avicii - Wake me up
Mumford and Sons - Lover of the Light

Ed Sheeran - Bloodstream 
Mumford and Sons - The cave 
George Ezra - Blame it on Me 
Paolo Nutini - Last Request 
Michael Buble – Crazy Love 
Jack Johnson - Good People 
Lighthouse Family - Lifted 
Train - Drops of Jupiter 
Lionel Richie - Dancing on the Ceiling 
Jackson 5 - I want you back
Van Morrison - Brown eyed Girl 
Tracy Chapman - Fast car 
Ed Sheeran - Thinking Out Loud

Charlton House: live acoustic music at James & Sally’s wedding reception + first dance

 

 I met with Sally and James a few months back at the fantastic Charlton House - a stunning venue and one of Duncan Bannatyne's hotels, of Dragon's Den fame. Back then it was a dark Winter's evening, but thankfully it was a completely different day for the happy couple's big day!

   

There was rain around in the morning but thankfully the clouds cleared and the sun even made a brief appearance in the afternoon. I set up outside and played some acoustic music as guests arrived and mingled for the drinks reception. Sally & James chose an eclectic playlist, and the live music went down a treat!

Here was the afternoon playlist:

Bruno Mars - Marry You (as bride & groom arrived)
Jason Mraz - I'm Yours
Ben Howard - Only Love
Otis Redding - (Sittin' On) The Dock Of The Bay
Beatles - Here Comes The Sun
Bob Marley - Three Little Birds
Ed Sheeran - The A-Team
Joshua Radin - I'd Rather Be With You
Plain White T's - Hey There Delilah
Christina Perri - A Thousand Years
Counting Crows - Accidentally In Love
Jack Johnson - Better Together
Jason Mraz - I Won't Give Up
Snow Patrol - Chasing Cars
Kodaline - The One
Lumineers - Ho Hey
Deep Blue Something - Breakfast At Tiffanys

Later on, I played a second set inside as the main room was turned around for the evening reception. Here was the second playlist:

Eagle Eye Cherry - Save Tonight
George Ezra - Budapest
OneRepublic - Counting Stars
James Blunt - Bonfire Heart
Coldplay - Yellow
Mumford & Sons - The Cave
Amy Winehouse - Valerie
The Kooks - Naive
The Killers - Mr. Brightside
Tracey Chapman - Fast Car
Jackson Five - I Want You Back
Van Morrison - Brown Eyed Girl
Bryan Adams - Summer of '69
Ben E King - Stand By Me

And just before I left for the evening, I played the happy couple's first dance acoustically - the incredible "Thinking Out Loud" by Ed Sheeran. What an amazing song!

Nicola & Ryan: The Grange Hotel, Winterbourne, Bristol North – Drinks reception live acoustic music

After yesterday's road trip to Cornwall, today's wedding was a much more local affair! A short 20 minute journey North to The Mercure Grange Hotel in Winterbourne, Bristol for Nicola and Ryan's big day. The happy couple booked me to play during the break between the ceremony and the wedding breakfast.

Set up and ready to play at the drinks reception

   

Despite a chilly wind (good old British Summer!), we managed to hold the drinks reception outdoors in the beautiful grounds of the hotel. The rain held off thankfully, and the photographer made the most of the beautiful surroundings, getting some great group shots and pictures of the happy couple. Meanwhile, I serenaded the wedding party with some acoustic covers picked by the newlyweds.

Playing at the drinks reception

Nicola & Ryan picked a bang up-to-date playlist, including songs from Ed Sheeran, George Ezra, One Direction and John Legend. This was mixed in with some classics such as Fast Car by Tracey Chapman and Higher & Higher by Jackie Wilson. I captured some of the set on film so will get this onto the YouTube page soon!

Guitar selfie!

A great afternoon and the music seemed to go down well! I spotted the bride dancing away to "What Makes You Beautiful" while having photographs taken :-) And I managed to squeeze in a request for the lads. Massive congratulations to the happy couple - thanks for inviting me to be a part of your big day. Hope you had a fantastic day and that married life is everything you hoped for!

Nicola & Ryan's acoustic playlist

Eagle Eye Cherry - Save Tonight
Jack Johnson - Better Together
George Ezra – Budapest
Alex Clare - Too Close
Ed Sheeran - The A Team
Bob Marley - Three Little Birds
Jason Mraz - I'm Yours
Bryan Adams – Heaven
The Lumineers - Ho Hey
James Blunt - You're Beautiful
Bon Jovi - Livin' On A Prayer
The Calling - Wherever You Will Go
Bruno Mars - Marry You

Pharrell – Happy
John Legend - All Of Me
Maroon 5 - Moves Like Jagger
The Killers - Mr Brightside
The Kooks - Naive
Kings of Leon - Sex on Fire
One Direction - What Makes You Beautiful
Daft Punk - Get Lucky
Bruno Mars - Uptown Funk
?Jackie Wilson - Higher & Higher
Jackson Five - I Want You Back?
Tracey Chapman - Fast Car
?Green Day - Time Of Your Life
Bob Marley - No Woman, No Cry
Oasis - Wonderwall (request)

Acoustic guitarist & singer for weddings: Ceremony and reception at Watergate Bay nr Newquay, Cornwall

An early start this morning for Claire & Mike's wedding at the amazing Watergate Bay Hotel in Cornwall. Just North of Newquay, Watergate Bay is a new destination for me, and I'm so glad I got to play at this incredible venue! The views as you walk into the hotel restaurant are just breathtaking - the restaurant looks out over the beautiful sandy beach, and fortunately we had a lovely sunny day.

Stunning beach views from the restaurant

I set off just after 7am this morning and made it to the venue before 10am - plenty of time to get set up and ready for Claire & Mike's 1pm ceremony. The events space is small, intimate and beautiful - and the styling looked fantastic for the ceremony. There was around 60 guests at the ceremony, which apparently is one of the larger weddings hosted at this venue.

My guitar getting cosy!

Guests started to filter in at about 12.30pm, at which point I began playing some acoustic songs. Claire & Mike selected today's playlist (see set list below) with some lovely choices, from The Beatles right through to Kodaline. The bride entered the ceremony to the traditional wedding march "Here Comes The Bride", played on acoustic guitar. For the signing of the register they chose "Can't Help Falling In Love" by Elvis and "Only Love" by Ben Howard - and they exited the ceremony to rapturous applause as I played "All You Need Is Love" by The Beatles.

Love is... a Gibson acoustic guitar!

Canapés were served and guests had an afternoon drink while I played some acoustic tunes at the drinks reception. I had an absolutely fantastic day - I'd like to extend my congratulations to Claire & Mike and thank them for inviting me to play on their big day! Hope the evening was just as fantastic as the daytime... I wonder if anyone got carried away and decided to go for a swim!!

Stunning beach views at Watergate Bay

Today's wedding set lists:

Better Together – Jack Johnson
Rude – Magic!
Here Comes The Sun – The Beatles
Marry You - Bruno Mars
The One – Kodaline
Fly Me To The Moon - Frank Sinatra
Blame It On Me – George Ezra
Thinking Out Loud – Ed Sheeran

The Bridal March "Here Comes The Bride"
Ben Howard - Only Love
Elvis - Can't Help Falling In Love
Beatles - All You Need Is Love

Save Tonight – Eagle Eye Cherry
Three Little Birds – Bob Marley
Mash up – Get Lucky / Counting Stars
Budapest - George Ezra
Hey Ho – The Lumineers
Let Her Go - Passenger
The Cave - Mumford & Sons
Love Machine (acoustic version) – Girls Aloud
I Bet You Look Good On The Dancefloor - Arctic Monkeys
Uptown Funk – Bruno Mars
Sing – Ed Sheeran
Superstition - Stevie Wonder
Heard It Through The Grapevine - Marvin Gaye
(Sittin' On) The Dock Of The Bay - Otis Redding

Wedding Guitarist & Singer - Nailsea Tithe Barn nr. Bristol - evening party

The weddings season is in full flow now, so I thought it would be nice to document as many events as I can on my blog!

Well, May kicked off with a bang as I had a great night playing a private birthday party at The Station Kitchen, Bristol. Didn't manage to get any photos of the event unfortunately, but it was a great evening with an eclectic mix of songs, from the Jackson Five right through to George Ezra! The second weekend of the month involved a typically loud Friday night gig at my resident venue Illusions Magic Bar, followed by Matt & Laura's spectacular wedding at the beautiful Nailsea Tithe Barn.

The stage is set!

I play at a lot of wedding ceremonies & drinks receptions, so it was nice to play an evening set! Matt and Laura picked all the tunes on the night, with quite an indie/rock feel to the set list. I kicked off the night with their first dance - a song I'd actually never heard before "Hooked on a Feeling" by Blue Swede. Stripped back, it worked brilliantly on acoustic guitar, and it was a lovely moment. I captured quite a bit of the evening on film - so when I get a chance to sync the audio/video, splice together the footage and make it look a bit prettier, I'll upload some videos.

  
Later on, Laura & I surprised the wedding guests with a rendition of "Valerie" by Amy Winehouse! The bride joined me on stage to sing, and was absolutely brilliant! Maybe slightly too brilliant ;-) but if anyone's allowed to outshine me, surely it's the bride!!

The bride showing me how it's done!

It was an absolutely brilliant evening, I loved every minute. We had a full dance floor all evening, despite the hog roast, cheese board and LOADS of cake!! So thank you to everyone who danced, sang along, and made it an evening to remember. And massive congratulations to Matt & Laura... I'm sure we'll see each other soon as we live 5 minutes down the road from one another! Here's last night's set list:

Blue Swede - Hooked on a Feeling (first dance)
Jack Johnson - Better Together
Maroon 5 - Moves Like Jagger
Olly Murs - Dance With Me Tonight
Amy Winehouse - Valerie (sung by the bride!)
Lumineers - Ho Hey
Train - Drive By
Arctic Monkeys - Mardy Bum
Jake Bugg - Lightning Bolt
Kooks - She Moves In Her Own Way
Kings of Leon - Use Somebody
Marvin Gaye - Heard It Through The Grapevine
Avicii - Wake Me Up
The Calling - Wherever You Will Go

Pharrell - Happy
Stevie Wonder - Superstition
Killers - Mr Brightside
Arctic Monkeys - I Bet That You Look Good On The Dancefloor
Fratellis - Whistle For The Choir
Kings of Leon - Sex on Fire
Lady GaGa/Eurythmics medley - Bad Romance/Sweet Dreams
Rihanna - Umbrella
Maroon 5 - Payphone
White Stripes - Seven Nation Army
Razorlight - Before I Fall To Pieces
Red Hot Chilli Peppers - Dani California
Van Morrison - Brown Eyed Girl
Fratellis - Chelsea Dagger

Wedding Guitarist Blog: Common mistakes made when booking a live musician

As a follow-on from my last blog piece about live wedding music, I've also put together a few thoughts on what tends to work less effectively, in my experience:

• Too much music! I've had plenty of emails in the past along the lines of "we'd like you to play at the church, then the drinks reception for a couple of hours, then we want you to play background music during the meal, then if you could do a couple of hours before the DJ starts". When you're booking a musician, you want value for money for sure - but as a solo performer, this is physically impossible! It would amount to 5 or 6 hours of almost constant singing/playing - and if I had any voice left by that point, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be able to feel my fingers!

• The wedding breakfast. Now this is my personal opinion, but I don't think there's any need to have a live musician during the wedding breakfast. A pianist or classical guitarist may provide some nice atmosphere, but an iPod or playlist will do the same job. During the meal people want to chat to one another, and of course there's usually speeches, so I don't think having a live player adds anything in this instance. That's not to say that it can't be a lovely addition to the big day - I've just found that personally, when I've played during the wedding breakfast, it's been less effective. You could always order one of my CDs if you wanted customised music to play in the background! (had to sneak some self-promotion in there!!)

• Beware of a tight schedule. Now this affects the live music for sure, but also applies to the whole day. If you're the control freak type who wants your day planned to the minute, unfortunately you do have to prepare yourself for unexpected situations which could delay the day. Try not to cram too much into a short space of time. You may have to look really closely at your timings, and allow for some leeway, especially if your ceremony is starting later in the day. Speeches usually take longer than you expect... the bride is often not on time for the ceremony... the photographs invariably take longer than you'd imagine. Your venue or wedding co-ordinator, if you have one, will usually guide you. If they take a sharp intake of breath and say "ooh, it's a bit tight", they're probably right. It only takes one of the waiting staff to go off sick, or a problem in the kitchen, and all of a sudden you're behind schedule, which can be a huge problem if you're left no wiggle room. I'd say at least 80% of the weddings I play at run behind schedule! One wedding I played at ran 3 hours behind schedule due to one thing and another - yikes!

• Try to avoid live music playing while food is served in the evening. This follows on from the last point, in a way. If the schedule is very tight and something runs late, this may be unavoidable. However, this is something I always try to advise people when booking for the evening. If you have a buffet, hog roast, pizza oven - whatever - arriving in the evening, try to make sure the band or live musician isn't playing because of course, the dance floor will empty as soon as food arrives. If I'm booked for an evening, I'll usually play my 2 x 1 hour sets after the evening food is done - or, I'll play one set before the food arrives, have a break during, and then resume after people have eaten. There's nothing worse for the bride & groom than booking a band (or someone like me) and having them play to an empty room!

• Does the layout of your venue lend itself to live music? The wedding couple book their dream venue, and fork out on their choice of band or musician, then find that they end up having a largely empty dance floor in the evening. Fortunately this doesn't happen often, but there have been times where I've felt so sorry for the wedding couple because people are just not up on the dance floor in the evening. This is rarely the fault of the band or musician, so how can you avoid this happening? Often the layout of the venue can be a factor. Is the bar in a separate room, away from the area where the musician or band is performing? Often people will gravitate towards the bar (especially the men - come on men - up your game, get on that dance floor!!) and in some cases that's where they'll stay all night. If your venue has multiple rooms or large grounds, that can also be a factor. Just something to bear in mind that I think is often overlooked.

• It's too loud!! In some ways this is part of the previous point. If your venue is on the smaller side, a band may not be suitable. As soon as you introduce live drums and electric guitars, things start getting LOUD. Bear in mind that this may be overwhelming, especially if you have more elderly guests. Of course, at this point I'm going to say that a singer and guitarist like myself is a fantastic alternative! Some venues have sound limiters which will cut the electric supply when the music reaches a certain volume level.

• In the evening, try to pick songs that will appeal to all. As a wedding musician, my repertoire is large and varied because at a wedding you have all tastes and ages. I always let my wedding couples choose the songs they want played, but it's always worth throwing in as many songs as possible that are well-known and will appeal to the majority. It's your day, and of course you should definitely have the final say on what is played, but also have a think about who will be attending. You won't ever be able to please everyone, but as long as the majority are having a good time, you're onto a winner!

Written by Pat McIntyre, acoustic guitarist & singer for weddings based in Bristol, UK.

Wedding Guitarist blog: Advice/hints & tips on booking live wedding music

It's mid-April and things are starting to hot up here in Bristol... and I'm not just talking about the weather. Us folks in the wedding industry are readying ourselves for the Summer season. I've had a few beautiful Spring weddings already, but the real fun starts next month!

With a couple of weeks before my next wedding, I was doing a bit of admin and chatting with brides-to-be, and it occurred to me that many of the same questions come up time and time again. So I thought I'd put together a little blog post about booking a live musician such as myself. I'm getting married myself next year, so I can completely empathise with brides and grooms-to-be who are planning their big day! If there's one thing I can definitely help with, it's music... so, from my personal experiences, here's my hints & tips - and things to avoid - when booking a live musician for your wedding.

Pre-booking: Finding a musician

When arranging your wedding entertainment, finding the right musician is undoubtedly the hardest bit. Everyone's wedding planning experience is different. Some people will know exactly what they want, some have a rough idea of how the day will pan out, and some don't know where to start! There's a bewildering choice of wedding suppliers, and music is no exception.

Budget

Yes, it's a dull and practical place to start, but the first thing you should do is set a limit for how much you can afford on entertainment. I've read bridal magazines that suggest you should set by at least £2000 for entertainment - but then I've read blogs and articles that put the figure nearer £650. Although us wedding musicians don't like to admit it, we are usually one of the later considerations when it comes to budget. Essentials such as the dress, the venue, flowers and photography are always going to take priority - so I don't ever take offence when people say my prices are over their budget, because I know how quickly costs can add up! 

I would take advice from magazines and websites with a pinch of salt - your budget is as much as you can afford. Set a figure you're happy with - if you come in under budget, brilliant, but also be prepared to go a little over budget if you find a band or musician you really love. 

What time of day is best for live music?

This is another factor which will affect what type of musician you choose. An obvious time for music is during the evening - I'll look at this in a moment, but there's lots of options for the daytime too. I'll approach this question purely from my position as a singer and guitarist - I get bookings for all parts of the wedding day, so this is just my personal opinion on what works best. 

Every wedding schedule is different, but most commonly I'm booked to play at the wedding ceremony and following drinks reception. This always works well in my experience - as guests arrive I'll play 20 minutes or so of music to set a relaxed atmosphere, then I'll play during the ceremony and for an hour or so afterwards, before guests head in for the wedding breakfast. 

Cheers!

If you hadn't thought about the time following the ceremony, you may well want to consider booking someone like myself to entertain guests while you're having photos taken, and people are having refreshments. It can be a great way to fill the gap between the ceremony and wedding breakfast. This is especially true if you're lucky enough to hold your wedding outdoors with good weather. Something about acoustic guitar and sunshine just works! 

Another increasingly popular option which works really well at weddings is afternoon tea. What's better than sitting outdoors on a warm British Summer day with a cup of Earl Grey and a slice of cake, or a lovely cream tea?! Live acoustic music is a perfect accompaniment for this kind of setup. 

Live wedding ceremony music - tips 

• most live musicians will take requests, so if you have a particular song in mind for the walk down the aisle, and/or the exit of the married couple, ask if they can play your song. I send the bride and groom an mp3 version of their song at their request, so that they can hear how my acoustic version will sound.

• bear in mind that the walk down the aisle often doesn't take very long! Most songs are 3-4 minutes long, and the walk is often less than a minute. In this case, I would adapt the length of the song to suit, so that it ends at an appropriate moment.

• the signing of the register is another nice time to have a couple of songs - in my experience this usually takes about 5 minutes, so time to have a couple of songs played. Again, for my weddings I welcome song requests. 

Evening entertainment

I think many people would love to have a great band play at their wedding - but it can be difficult to pick one. The internet is great for finding people, but you really need to see them live to get a flavour of what they do. This can be a bit tricky for dedicated wedding bands - because they're always at weddings! 

One of the best ways of finding a band is by word-of-mouth recommendation. Maybe you saw a band at a friend's wedding, or people were raving about a band they saw at someone else's event. If you've found someone on the internet, see if they have any public performances you can go to. For a good function band, you should realistically be expecting to pay in the region of £1000-£1500+ 

DJ's again are a tricky one - there's many out there of varying quality (I have a couple of recommendations on my site for DJs) and unfortunately you don't really have the option of seeing them do their thing before the big day (unless you've seen them at a friend's wedding). So again, word-of-mouth is your friend here, and if you are booking someone you found on the internet, try to meet up with them to get an idea of their personality. You can usually expect to pay around £400 for a good DJ. Make sure they have good quality equipment which is PAT tested yearly, and bear in mind that some venues will require public liability insurance. These two points apply to bands and musicians as well. 

*sales pitch* You may not associate an acoustic guitarist with the evening party, but my acoustic guitar/vocal style works really well if you're after some high quality live evening entertainment which won't break the bank. I regularly play at a couple of late-night venues in Bristol, so I know which tunes to play to get everyone up on the dance floor! *sales pitch over!* 

 

I hope that some of this blog is helpful if you're planning your wedding and looking for live music. Good luck with your search for the perfect musician, and of course please do get in touch if you're considering my acoustic guitar/singing for your wedding day!

Blog Part 2 - Common mistakes/Things to avoid

Written by Pat McIntyre, singer & acoustic guitarist from Bristol.

Acoustic Guitar at the Vintage Wedding Fayre - Clifton, Bristol

It was wild, wet and windy here in Bristol this morning. Combine that with the fact that I was out gigging until midnight, and that British Summer Time had the nerve to steal an hour of sleep from us, and I must be honest - I didn't fancy getting out of bed when my 8.30am alarm sounded this morning!

However, drag myself from my pit I did, and I had a great day playing acoustic songs for the Bristol Vintage Wedding Fayre at Freemason's Hall. It was lovely to meet lots of brides and grooms-to-be and chat all things wedding music. Lovely to see lots of friendly faces and mingle with fellow wedding suppliers too! That's my last wedding fair of the year (unless I book in any last-minute) - so if you want to catch me singing live, keep an eye on the gigs page :)

Thanks to The Little Wedding Helper for this photo!

Wedding Guitarist special offers and discounts: Preferred Venues

Along with Aldwick Court Farm & Vineyard, I've now added Wick Farm Bath and Portland House, Cardiff Bay to my Preferred Venues list. Anyone booking a wedding guitar package through these venue's suppliers lists will receive a 10% discount on their overall quote. You can read more here:

   

Playing live acoustic music at the Wedding Tweet Ups - Goldbrick House, Bristol

Tonight I played some live acoustic music at Goldbrick House, Bristol for the Bristol Wedding Tweet Up. The Tweet Up is an informal get-together arranged by Kirsten aka The Little Wedding Helper for people in the wedding industry. It's a good excuse for us all to get together, have a glass of bubbly, some canapés and a good chinwag!

Goldbrick House is a lovely venue on Park Street in the centre of Bristol. I've played a couple of weddings there before, but never been up on the top level before (the Orangery). It's absolutely beautiful with some great views.

Here's my set lists from tonight:

Bob Marley - Three Little Birds
Eagle Eye Cherry - Save Tonight
George Ezra - Budapest
Zutons/Amy Winehouse - Valerie
Jack Johnson - Better Together
Jason Mraz - I'm Yours
Tom Odell - Grow Old With Me
Beatles - Here Comes The Sun
Otis Redding - (Sittin' On) The Dock Of The Bay
Blackstreet - No Diggity
Ed Sheeran - Don't
Bastille - Pompeii
Avicii - Wake Me Up

Pharrell - Happy
Stevie Wonder - Superstition
Killers - Mr Brightside
George Ezra - Blame It On Me
Stealers Wheel - Stuck In The Middle With You
Daft Punk - Get Lucky
Lumineers - Ho Hey
Bob Marley - Stir It Up
Jackson Five - I Want You Back
Oasis - Wonderwall
Tracey Chapman - Fast Car
Van Morrisson - Brown Eyed Girl
Ben E King - Stand By Me

Live acoustic recordings from the Bristol Vintage Wedding Fair

Last Sunday I played some acoustic tunes at the Bristol Vintage Wedding Fair, hosted at the Pavilion, Bristol Zoo Gardens. I recorded some of my set and am just in the process of editing/uploading some live videos from the event. Here's the first one, a cover of George Ezra's "Blame It On Me".

   

 George is a local boy, from right 'ere in Brizzle town! I love his album "Wanted on Voyage" - his voice is amazing and the album's full of upbeat, Summery songs. I'm also looking forward to seeing him live in Bristol this Summer!

Acoustic Halloween!

Had an amazing Halloween night playing at Illusions Magic Bar! My Halloween-themed set list included Soft Cell - Tainted Love, Jamie T - Zombie, Michael Jackson - Thriller, The Ghostbusters theme, Monster by the Automatic, Creep by Radiohead, Superstition by Stevie Wonder and Highway To Hell by AC/DC. Oh, and The Joker by the Steve Miller Band (see pic below!)

A photo posted by Pat McIntyre Wedding Guitarist (@thepatmcintyre) on Nov 11, 2014 at 3:32pm PDT

patmcintyre.co.uk launched

I've recently launched www.PatMcIntyre.co.uk as a personal website separate to my wedding music business. On this page, I'll be promoting my own music - once it's recorded! I've been writing and recording both for myself and for others for many years now, and it feels like the time is right to record my best songs and release them as an EP. At the moment I have the songs mostly ready as sketches, but I'm just so busy that I haven't had time to record yet! Hopefully I'll be getting some original material out there around about Spring 2015.

Celebrity Spotting!

A quick snap of me and Radio 1's Matt Edmondson - he was a guest at a recent wedding. I'm pleased to report that he danced and sang along to every song I played and gave me some excellent feedback afterwards! He didn't, however, agree to play any of my songs on Radio 1!

Wedding Music Ideas - Acoustic Guitarist and Singer

A quick thought or two on having live music at a wedding...

Being an acoustic guitarist and singer, I know how much a live musician can add to the wedding day. My most common bookings are for the wedding ceremony and the following drinks reception - two parts of the day where live acoustic guitar and vocals just works so beautifully.

Acoustic guitar adds a really personal touch at wedding ceremonies

There are many options for your wedding day if you're looking for live musicians. Maybe you want a string quartet to provide a beautiful rendition of your song at the ceremony. Strings are a lovely accompaniment to a more traditional ceremony.

I've found that my modern style of acoustic guitar has been really popular in recent times. I think a lot of people instantly associate wedding guitarists with classical guitarists - a guy sat in a corner plucking a classical guitar, playing the old standards. My style is totally different... think more Ed Sheeran, Jason Mraz - I sing and play acoustic guitar and I think it really helps set the tone for the wedding day. You can check out some videos here:

When I'm playing at the wedding ceremony, I usually have some specific songs requested by the bride and groom. I can learn most songs on the acoustic guitar (I've not been beaten yet, and I've had some obscure requests!) - and this provides a unique, memorable way of including some live music at the wedding ceremony.

Many people now follow their ceremony with a drinks reception - maybe serving champagne or afternoon tea while guests mingle, and the wedding couple have photographs taken. I think this is when an acoustic guitar set really comes into it's own. It gives guests a focal point, and some entertainment in the afternoon. There's often about an hour - an hour and a half gap between the ceremony and the wedding breakfast, and I love providing some music for people to listen to. It's particularly great in the Summer, outdoors on a warm sunny day.

An upbeat acoustic set is a great way to kick off the evening party

Of course, the other time at a wedding when live music comes into it's own is at the evening party. I'm sure everyone would love to book a band, but it's not always that easy. There's so many bands out there - of varying quality! And with varying price ranges. You get what you pay for, as a rule, unless you can get a mate's band to do a cheap favour for you. But generally, you're going to need to set aside an absolute minimum of £1000 for a good band to perform on the wedding night.

This is where I come in! Booking me offers a very budget-friendly option, and I guarantee that guests will be entertained, up on the dance floor and singing along. I play out in Bristol most Friday and Saturday nights when I'm not booked for weddings, so I know exactly what songs to play to get the crowd up on their feet. From old classics like the Beatles and Van Morrisson through to modern artists like Bastille, Ed Sheeran and Jessie J, my repertoire is large and varied.

Click to browse my online repertoire

Sometimes I'll be booked as a warm-up, before a DJ or band - and sometimes I'll be the main event! Either way, I love playing at the evening party and helping make it a night to remember (or forget... depending on how well the champers is flowing!!)

I hope this blog gave you some ideas - if you're planning your wedding day and thinking about entertainment, maybe this will inspire you to book me and my guitar on your big day! You can get in touch with me here: Pat McIntyre - Guitarist For Weddings

Live Wedding Guitar Songs

I've been recording some live footage at this Summer's wedding events and have started to get around to putting some of it on YouTube. I've set up a playlist which you can watch below... and I'll be continually adding to this as an when I upload more footage :)

Public Appearance at Clifton Arcade

Tomorrow I'll be playing some fun, upbeat summery acoustic tunes at the beautiful Clifton Arcade centre. Dating back to 1878, Clifton Arcade is a unique and beautiful shopping little centre full of charm and character, right in the heart of Clifton Village. From 2pm-ish, I'll be playing an hour or two of acoustic songs, so if you're nearby then why not pop down and say hi!

Pat McIntyre playing at the Bristol Balloon Fiesta

Very pleased to announce that I'll be playing some live music at the Bristol Balloon Fiesta (7-10th August 2014) this year. I'll be performing for the balloonists and crews, hopefully camping over at the site too - should be a big old knees-up! And yes, I get to take a flight in a hot air balloon... can't wait!

New guitar: Gibson Songwriter Electro-acoustic

So finally, my well played and much beloved old Washburn electro-acoustic has been retired (well not completely – it’ll still be used in the studio and as a backup guitar). I splashed out and realised my lifelong dream of owning a Gibson acoustic guitar – and what a beauty she is.